Psychoanlizse (no i can't spell)

*sigh* today is a bit difficult I'm letting my cat and the bird see if they will work. To explain that i have a friend I'll call Kat and anther I'll call Bird. Bird cheated on Kat about a month ago, it broke Kat's heart badly. Kat threw birds ring in a lake and refused to even be in the same room as him. Bird went back to a girl that he thought was his one. Bird's dream didn't live up to Kat so now he's back for her. Which wouldn't do anything except, Kat still loves bird , so as their friend I'm trying to fix this conundrum. The problem is that Kat is very soft spoken and bird is very loud, so bird has a tendency to drown out Kat's feelings. The result is Kat has a lot of pent of feelings, especially about their break up. Bird is also self destructive he ruins his friendships and relationships. He's stopping but he's not completely stopped. Kat has had a lot of bad relationships and is jealous and distrustful as a result. together this leads to a rather larger number of potential fuck ups. I'm putting in hours everyday trying to keep these people on an even keel. Today is when all of my hard work is tested. I think it will hold, but when your dealing with feelings everything gets complicated. tell ya later about the end

oh oh oh LOVE this thingy!!!!!



2 Stews: Cheesecake In A Mug

and this

 Five-Minute Chocolate Mug Cake - iVillage


I am alone way to much and these are great by my self treats!! have i mentioned i love baking! yay
 

My first real post fun fun bit of a rant....

well good morning or night could be either 0.0 I think I'll talk about something that men do that drives me bonkers. They bitch. WAY to much. A mans day is work and home. Some games, a few annoying people. It's pretty basic. Women if we want it or not have some ass at work that makes SOME comment about our sex lives, not to mention the office whore that has petty power plays because she's doing the boss (example  on the office whore :3). God forbid the boss thinks your hot -.- your now stuck trying to either avoid him/her, or  god forbid you want to give it a try because now your a magically a gold digger. That is just WORK. Let's go home to the kids and husband. The kids want mommy mommy mommy not daddy. Mom makes dinner, Mom cleans, Mom takes care of the kids, Mom helps with homework, Mom has to nurture, and Mom has to sooth the hurt feelings. Then there is Daddy and the problems he brings Mom. so guy at work does more work than him but gets more money! Well women work for a percentage of the money of a man gets and don't get to bitch. And don't get me started on sex. women are expected to simultaneously be completely innocent but great in bed, and god forbid they don't want to have sex. Then the guy bitchs more.



Women spend their whole day getting bitched at by men, but have a much harder life, this is of course a average sort of thing. If my boyfriend EVER did this to me i'd kick his ass and do whenever he tries. that doesn't mean never bitch but please guys tone it down *sigh* Not to say that women never bitch because god they do i had this girlfreind once DE-AM she wouldn't ever STOP. anyway different subject :3

Well that was easier than i thought

Hey, XD I dunno how successful this blog is going to be, or if it will even get one view.  It's fine either way i guess. I guess i should tell you i will not be very regular with my updates 0.o  sorry. . . . . mainly I'm just going to share what's on my mind, so cooking people, life, psychoanalysis, and things i call my guide to life.